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58 - Colchester, Essex, England

Looking for a friendship first & then whatever happens, happens? I'm happy go lucky, good sense of humour...so...

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68 - Solihull, West Midlands, England

I’m a widower after fifty years together. Life has had its share of weight, but I’m still someone who values...

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52 - Chippenham, Wiltshire, England

I am a fun and outgoing. I love meeting new people, helping others and finding new adventures. I am self...

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79 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I am a widower in my late seventies. Very fit and active, each day, I walk with with Bailey, the retired...

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66 - Haywards Heath, West Sussex, England

I am gregarious, funny and sporty. I love the good things in life. La dolce vita . Good food, good wine and good...

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56 - Chelmsford, Essex, England

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