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60 - Birmingham, West Midlands, England

I am a single lady living in Birmingham, UK. I am warm‑hearted, outgoing, kind and gentle. I enjoy a...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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Andyjuk

60 - Salisbury, Wiltshire, England

I'm tired of being on my own. I think i get on well with people, and i do have a good sense of humour : -) I...

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Flower480

60 - Knutsford, Cheshire, England

I’m looking for a conscience partner, to share my life with , emotionally mature with a lust for life. I love to...

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72 - Canterbury, Kent, England

I’m a retired doctor turned writer (2 published novels), currently rather blocked. I’d say I’m fairly...

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Allofthisischance

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