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60 - Wandsworth, London, England

I am an easy-going, friendly long-divorced lady, enjoy reading, pottering around the house and looking out into...

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COOKINGUPASTORM

65 - Hereford, Herefordshire, England

Just a simple honest guy with a good sense of humour and a zest for life. I used to be a professional Chef in...

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Meandering17

58 - Maidenhead, Berkshire, England

All round Good Bloke, who enjoys both the finer things in life as well as getting back to nature. Loves to...

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Happysmiles123

67 - Guildford, Surrey, England

Looking to start my next chapter! Life is one adventure and is for living. There is no rehearsal! I feel ready...

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Essbee67

58 - Stroud, Gloucestershire, England

Hello and thank you for looking. Am looking forward to hopefully meeting someone lovely in the coming year and...

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57 - Cannock Chase, Staffordshire, England

I enjoy meeting new people, I'm generally confident, enjoy communicating and getting to know people, I'm...

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