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56 - Bournemouth, Dorset, England

If you can get past my tongue in cheek comment……… then perhaps we will have a laugh - after all isn’t that what...

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61 - Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England

I am easy going, optimistic and calm. I try to keep fairly fit doing the weekly park run and have just joined a...

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I am a single lady living in Birmingham, UK. I am warm‑hearted, outgoing, kind and gentle. I enjoy a...

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63 - St Albans, Hertfordshire, England

I am attracted to intelligent, sophisticated women who are interested in culture, the arts, food and travel. I...

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I’m a simple soul who loves life. No persona. To be at peace with oneself and to live the truth as best as one...

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