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57 - Guildford, Surrey, England

I’m curious, kind and enjoying life’s quirks. I’m kind-hearted, empathetic and enjoy a good laugh, with a...

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60 - Greenwich, London, England

Because I bring warmth, attention, and a quiet sense of humour — and I’m genuinely interested in getting to know...

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63 - Chipping Norton, Oxfordshire, England

I like to start the day with a trip to a gym/health club. Although from London (family still there) my...

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62 - Lambeth, London, England

I’m an easygoing and (I believe) affable chap with a most fulfilling life. I’ve attained professional success...

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58 - Westerham, Kent, England

I bring positive energy, a genuine sense of humour, and an appreciation of good people and good fun. I value...

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60 - Chester, Cheshire, England

Active and young at heart, love adventures big and small at home or abroad, every day is a treasure and would...

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