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Scary1973

53 - Tonbridge, Kent, England

Originally South African but been in the uk 20 years. Looking for love but not naive enough to think that’s...

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Castleman

67 - Wimborne, Dorset, England

I am a genuine, sincere man who values integrity, faithfulness and kindness. My wife of 35 years died 15 months...

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Foxred

47 - Rye, East Sussex, England

I’m kind, loyal and got a lot to give. Love to laugh and spend time with the people I love. Big Dog lover.

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Whatever

67 - Tower Hamlets, London, England

People should get to know me because life is inherently a team sport, and I bring a position to the field that...

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scottishdaddy

53 - Colchester, Essex, England

Single gent looking for a lady to enjoy life, like to travel beach or city location depending on time of year.

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Nodrama76

50 - Moffat, Dumfries & Galloway, Scotland

I am a positive person and fairly laid back. I enjoy going out socially, walking, city breaks and arts and...

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Lisa, 22 January 2026
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I have found the true love of my life here . We are completely in tune with one another. Everything one of us likes, we both like. I did not really believe this was possible when I first started to dabble with dating sites but I have massively proved myself wrong and I am happier then I have been for over 30 years .
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