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53 - Tonbridge, Kent, England

Originally South African but been in the uk 20 years. Looking for love but not naive enough to think that’s...

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71 - Poole, Dorset, England

Outdoorsy, sporty, lives the sea and mountains. Enjoys going out and staying in. Relaxed, pretty calm, dog...

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61 - Manchester, Greater Manchester, England

I'm a mix of very serious and bohemian creative. So I love to go out drinking and laughing but then want a...

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69 - Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland

Just a genuine ex rugby dad and grandad. Retired from work (and rugby for a long time). Honest and easy to chat...

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67 - Camden, London, England

I'm a vivacious, fun-loving, social and unique lady with a dazzling smile! I have a passion for the arts but...

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