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60 - Ashford, Kent, England

I'm 60 (apparently the new 40!) - and no, I'm certainly not dead or even half-dead! I have far too much life...

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71 - Southampton, Hampshire, England

Fit, healthy, financially solvent, honest, loyal and generous are the things that have been used to describe me,...

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60 - Walsall, West Midlands, England

After being widowed and being alone for quite some time now ,, I’ve decided to see if I can start again and meet...

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58 - Brigg, Lincolnshire, England

Full of fun and energy. Music is a major part of my life, including conducting brass bands. Love cooking and...

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44 - Canterbury, Kent, England

I spend my life writing about other people so this part is surprisingly tricky! I’ve just got back from a week...

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Karen, 26 January 2026
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