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66 - Ashford, Kent, England

I’m a writer and published author who had the luck to get going before AI came along. I love my work, and have...

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I am happy, healthy & active, looking for someone similar. Love driving & my car. My best holiday would be...

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I’m a simple soul who loves life. No persona. To be at peace with oneself and to live ones truth as best as one...

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53 - Blackpool, Lancashire, England

I have a bucket list and it would be good to try and do some of it but not on my own. I love a cosy night in but...

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69 - Newbury, Berkshire, England

I was chatting to a friend the other day about my abject failure to meet a soulmate (mainly down to lethargy...

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