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59 - Guildford, Surrey, England

I'm happiest when I'm out on a long walk with my dog, on my yoga mat, at Pilates or the gym, or curled up with a...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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58 - Selkirk, Borders, Scotland

I’d say my personality is warm, caring, independent, and with my feet firmly on the ground. I appreciate both...

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65 - Bristol, Bristol, England

Im adveturous calm happy funny loving loyal trustworthy tactile kind and patient. Good chemistry kindness and...

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59 - Stroud, Gloucestershire, England

Absolutely no one on here who seems to be a good match so I will take a break. Have just got myself a new puppy...

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68 - Glastonbury, Somerset, England

Like to do different things have done a lot of traveling so can talk about different places and people so I can...

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John, 05 December 2025
We became "an item" in April and haven't looked back since in 8 months. She had met up with a few people from your site and was on the point of giving up when she had a last chance with me. We had a wonderful holiday together in August - we were looking forward to it so much but it far exceeded our best hopes! Since then I've met her family and many of her friends and got on so well with them. We're due to spend Christmas and New Year together and if all goes well one of us won't be going home as it were.
John, 27 June 2026
I met my lady online in February. She lives in France but I flew out to meet her and we clicked immediately. We are now spending most of our time together in one place or another.
Alec, 15 September 2025
Found my match within two days of joining. We are so happy together, just perfect.

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