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Staffymummy

55 - Lanark, Lanarkshire, Scotland

Not really sure what to say here, never done this before, been out of the dating thing so long. Feel at my age...

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PJ58

68 - Solihull, West Midlands, England

I’m a widower after fifty years together. Life has had its share of weight, but I’m still someone who values...

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Sidlet

65 - Oxford, Oxfordshire, England

I like to think of myself as relaxed and easygoing. I’m reasonably comfortable in my own skin. It’s not exactly...

BellerinaBellerina
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Bellerina

59 - Penarth, Vale of Glamorgan, Wales

Ive been single for almost 8 years and I would like to find someone I can spend some quality time with. I’m...

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Michelle4321

45 - Wigan, Greater Manchester, England

I am an independent woman who loves country music and cars. I am outgoing and love to meet like minded people...

HoratiusHoratius
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Horatius

71 - Rye, East Sussex, England

I'm an Oxbridge graduate with wide creative and practical interests, who enjoys walking, cycling, tennis,...

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Brendan, 14 December 2025
I was about to give up when I saw a single photo of a lady who seems to be my soul mate and who had just joined this site. We met for three dates but knew on the first one that we had never enjoyed so much ease in anyone's company ever before. We have never laughed so much or had so may sleepless nights as we communicate daily, several times a day and night. This is definitely it. At our age, we should know. (-;
Jude, 24 March 2026
The guy I met joined that day because he saw my profile & decided to subscribe. We have been together now for 2 yrs in June 2026.
Alison, 26 May 2025
I met three very pleasant gentlemen but number 4 was the one for me. We have now been together for nearly four years and are in the process of setting up house together.

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